"True Love Can Last
a
Lifetime."
Since June is the most popular
month for
weddings, let's explore romance.
Romance is always in style whether we're
newly weds or long-time lovers - adding
much pleasure to our lives.
Romance Quotes:
Your love makes my life
a beautiful place to be.
Love is happy. .
. Love is fun . . .
Love is
you!
Sharing is the heart of loving.
- Thomas
Malloy
Of all the joys in
life, having you to love is
the greatest joy of all.
Romance
Affirmations:
I am a warm, loving person.
I celebrate every moment of my life.
I delightfully create wonderful, memorable times
with you.
I treasure every moment we spend together.
I am grateful.
Questions:
How can I make my
partner feel even more
special and loved today?
How can I bring
more excitement and
romance into my relationship this week?
How can I create a
special, memorable
celebration for our next Holiday that we
will remember for years?
Recommendation:
Following is an excerpt from
the charming and
very "enlightening" book.
"Light His
Fire"
How to Keep Your Man
Passionately and
Hopelessly in Love with You
- By Ellen
Kriedman
"The first principle in making a love relationship
work is
to love someone for who he is, not what you
fantasize
he should or could be. This is love in its
purest form - there are no qualifications necessary
to receive
this love; it's automatic.
In the very
beginning, when you first fall in love,
you truly
do love that person for who he is. Later
your love becomes
conditional: "I'll love you if you
earn more money",
"I'll
love you if you will be more
outgoing", " I'll love you if you
will stop watching sports
on TV so much."
If, as a lover, you are
offering love that is
conditional - love
that always has an if attached to it -
then it becomes necessary for your mate to qualify
for your love. Conditional
love requires a person to
wonder whether he is worthy,
deserving, meets the
requirements, or is otherwise eligible
for your love.
We have to quality for
a job, not a relationship!
Unqualified
love means there are no prerequisites,
no contingencies, no
requirements for your love.
It is a gift given with no strings
attached."
- Ellen Kriedman
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